Warning signs of suicide

Warning signs of suicide include:

  • Planning to, or saying you want to, kill yourself or someone else.
  • Having access to a deadly means of committing suicide, such as a firearm.
  • Being disconnected from reality (psychotic), experiencing severe anxiety, or hallucinating that you are being given commands.
  • Using alcohol or drugs, especially in large quantities.
  • Talking, writing, or drawing about death, including writing suicide notes and speaking of items that can cause physical harm, such as pills, guns, or knives.
  • Spending long periods of time alone.
  • Giving away possessions.
  • Aggressive behaviour or suddenly appearing calm.

Some suicidal behaviours in teens and young adults include:

  • Running away from home.
  • Risky or dangerous behaviours, such as drunk driving.

Factors that increase the risk of suicide include having:

  • A history of a past suicide attempt.
  • A family history of suicide.
  • Recent exposure to suicide.
  • A history of depression or other mental health condition, such as bipolar disorder (manic-depressive illness) or schizophrenia.

Any mention of suicide should be taken seriously. If someone you know is threatening to commit suicide, try to find out whether the person:

  • Has the means (weapons or medications) available to commit suicide or do harm to another person.
  • Has set a time and place to commit suicide.
  • Thinks that there is no other way to end the pain.

If a suicide threat seems real, with a specific plan and the means at hand, the following guidelines may help:

  • Call 911, a suicide hotline, or the police.
  • Stay with the person, or ask someone you trust to stay with the person, until the crisis has passed.
  • Encourage him or her to seek professional help.
  • Don't argue with the person ("It's not as bad as you think") or challenge the person ("You're not the type to commit suicide").
  • Tell the person you don't want him or her to die. Talk about the situation as openly as possible.


Author: Jeannette Curtis
Douglas Dana
Ralph Poore
Last Updated: May 14, 2007
Medical Review: Martin Gabica, MD - Family Medicine
Andrew Swan, MD, CCFP, FCFP - Family Medicine
Lisa S. Weinstock, MD - Psychiatry

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